Does this ever happen to you? You go through life forgetting to do things that you enjoy? You become so busy with your responsibilities and day-to-day tasks that you forget to do things that connect yourself to a part of your personality, your character? And when you re-experience them, you say to yourself “I have forgotten how much I enjoy doing this, I should do this more often!”
When I was younger, my parents took us all across the country to visit our relatives. I was the youngest, and smallest; my designated spot was on the floor of the backseat while my brother and sister stretched their legs over me. I had slept so much during those trips that when it came to be my turn behind the wheel, I didn’t know which direction to go. When I became old enough, I rented vehicles so I could relive those experiences. For me, I enjoyed the drive just as much as I enjoyed the destination.
What is it about a vehicle that is so liberating? Is it because it is just you, a steering wheel and miles of pavement rolling beneath your feet? This is where I play the music is so loud that the rear view mirror trembles and my heart simulates the beat of the bass. This is where I practice my chair dancing techniques and play invisible musical instruments. This is where I reconnect to my childish self, the momentum of the music urging me to sing at my worst and act the silliest.
The understated road trip – something I have neglected to do in the last few years, but definitely something I should be doing more of.
It’s Tuesday, so here is a tune for you. I have to give the radio credit for overplaying popular songs – by the time I returned home, I had learned this down pat. Elle King – “Ex’s and Oh’s”
With an attitude that girl has got! Here’s to Elle King (and to road trips too, of courses) I’m off to see what else she has recorded
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Wow! That sounded fun! 😀 I can’t drive as I was fearful of taking the front seat. I must have missed out a lot of fun! 🙂
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I remember those family road trips when I was a child, the oldest of five kids. I loved looking out the window and watching the world go by. Still do. When Daddy drove at night, I could not figure out how the moon kept up with us.
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What a sweet story Dinata ☺ Thank you for sharing!
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I love road trips! My mom sat on the lawn swing outside with a map and told us each stop on the way, what hotel we would stay at. I loved loved road trips!! Let’s meet up ha ha in the middle big road trip!
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That is a wonderful idea!!
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yes !!
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“1 2 3 they gonna come back to me” I can definitely see us singing this at the top of our lungs. I’ll meet all of you there in the middle of nowhere!
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Yeahhhhhh
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🚗🚕🚙🚐
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Yeah road trip Clare
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Road trips! My goal is to take one aaallllll by myself someday soon.
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Without the furry companions?
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I feel perfectly and beautifully alone when the dogs are with me. Every introvert in the world will understand that feeling, haha! Sure, it would be wonderful to take them along, but a logistical nightmare…
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something I understand, completely. Hope you can get away, even for a “quickie”, before the snow lands too much and the temperature turns too unbearable 🙂
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I’m planning for the spring. 🙂 It’s getting cold already and I feel myself slipping into winter mode… complete with lots of fried perogies and the sudden urge to bake.
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Are perogies comfort food for you too?
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With a whack of fried onions and obscene amounts of sour cream, yes. They also have these great meatless “bacon bits” but I prefer fried-to-a-crisp mushrooms now, although I seldom have the patience to make those once I get into the perogy mood-state!
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Ha! Me too! And the mushroom addition…yummy! Will try that!
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I love to drive and I love road trips. I understand the loud music thing, yup, if you are going to play it it needs to be loud.
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It is so much better when you can’t hear your own voice 😉 Thank you for sharing!
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🙂
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Road trips rock! We never forget to take them! It’s a priority in our house. 😃
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I can’t believe I forgot how much fun they are!! Haven’t gone too far since my daughter was born 😣 That will change though. Need to make some memories for her. ☺
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It’ll turn her into a traveler too! She’ll thank you for that someday. 🙂
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That is so very sweet of you to say. Thanks!!
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It’s so true though. My kids have travelled from day one, and they have as much wanderlust as we do. 😃
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Yes, unfortunately this happens from time to time! I love road trips, my soul craves them. Right now I’m desperately in need of one!!..and I like the song 🙂
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Thanks Maria☺ I hope you will be able to get away before the snow flies. Best of luck on feeding your soul ☺
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Thank you 🙂
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Road trips and hotel vacations… the best! Love the song too!! 😀
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Thanks!! You must with enjoy it, it must be a part of the bling process! Hotels and hot tub soaks after the runs? Ah! Sounds heavenly!
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Hehe, yes, I love it, I admit it, 😀
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